Trending
A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes: *When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*

A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes:
*When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*
*”Probably They Do Not Have a Good Wife/Husband or a Good Marriage”*
*As governor, I was on call 24/7 sometimes.*
*I got very angry and could take my anger on anyone.*
*So, my chief of protocol bore the brunt one day.*
*I had a reception for guests and he placed them in rooms, not the way I would have done it, but he didn’t do anything wrong.*
*He used his own judgment.*
*I would have done it the other way, but I over reacted.*
*I spoke very harsh to him.*
*While I was doing this, my wife walked in and didn’t say a word.*
*She came in, did some other things in my office and left.*
*When I got back home in the evening, I’d forgotten about it. It’s just a normal event in the day.*
*My wife went on her knees in front of me, looked straight into my eyes like a penitent sinner and said, “The way you spoke to this guy was wrong and we have to go and apologise to him.”*
*She said I had no reason to speak to anyone like that.*
*I said, “What! He did this…” and she interrupted me, “Yes, I heard everything.*
*”The way you would have done it was different, but he didn’t do a bad thing. He used his discretion.* *So, what are you going to do? You have destroyed his self esteem.* *Tomorrow, he is not going to do anything discretionally.*
*He would wait for orders and then you will get irritated at that. You have made him lose his self-confidence and that is wrong. You need to go and apologise to him. Why should you speak to someone like that?* *Because you are governor?”*
*I ignored her, stood up and went into the bedroom, still fuming. As she will always do if she wants to have her way, my wife followed me into the bedroom and went on her knees again to plead the cause of a man as if he had begged her to plead his case.*
*”You have to do it this night and not tomorrow” because I kept saying I would do it tomorrow.*
*Onarie, still on her knees and almost in tears, insisted and said, “No, tonight. That man is not going to sleep well and so you do not have the right to sleep well when he was not sleeping well.”*
*Clearly defeated, I got into the car and we drove to his house.*
*His gate man froze when he discovered I was the one. In his confusion, he did not know how to properly open the gate till Onarie told him to take two deep breaths before attempting to open the door again!*
*We were ushered into the living room by an equally confused maid who had to stumble over chairs.*
*His wife turned in.*
*They were about to go to bed.*
*She was in her night gown.*
*She saw me and was scared with the expression of, ‘Okay, you have come to fire my husband finally’.*
*The guy came downstairs, petrified as my wife and I walked into the private living room.*
*The wife wanted to get up and leave.*
*I told the guy I came to apologise for my rude and harsh behaviour towards him and I told him am sorry.*
*They all got emotional but I got relieved.*
*It was like a heavy load had been taken off me.*
*I still get upset with things going up wrong, but I don’t get to a point I feel I am too big to say sorry.*
*And am learning to treat people better.*
*You can be referred to as “Your Excellency” today, but, for the best, it will only last eight years.*
*Senator?*
*Minister?*
*It is not forever!*
*Permanent Sec? It is still not permanent and we all know it’s just a title and not a life long position.*
*Director?*
*CEO?*
*DG?*
*etc.*
*Life is a stage, a platform for services unto God.*
*So let everyone take heed. Forgive and have regard for Human beings.*
*Moral Lessons.*
*Chose a spouse that have a soft and forgiving heart not a callous one*
*Respect other people’s opinion and have a listening ear*
*Have it in your mind that tomorrow is pregnant and no one know what it will deliver*
*Respect women opinions and fine tune it if need be because they are the Architect of our home.*
*Finally never belittle anybody in life because no one knows tomorrow*
*God bless you richly. Feel free to share it if you are blessed…*
Trending
Boat mishap: Agatu LG chairman condoles with family of five drowned siblings in Benue

Chairman of Agatu Local Government Area and Deputy ALGON Chairman in Benue State, James Melvin Ejeh, has expressed deep sympathy to the Obagaji community and the family of Mr. Moses Baba, who lost five children in a tragic boat accident on Sunday evening.
Ekwutosblog recalls that the tragic incident occurred when Mr. Baba and his five children were returning home from their farm in Obagaji.
Their boat, reportedly overloaded, capsized midstream, throwing all six occupants into the river.
While Mr. Baba narrowly survived, all five of his children drowned before help could reach them.
In a press statement signed by his Chief Press Secretary, Amb. Obochi Solomon, the chairman described the incident as “unfortunate, heart-wrenching, and painful.”
He expressed profound grief over the loss and commended local volunteers for their efforts in the rescue and recovery operations.
Ejeh prayed for God to console the bereaved family and give them the strength to bear the irreparable loss, while also urging residents to adhere to safety measures when using waterways to prevent future tragedies.
Trending
BREAKING: Fire guts Rivers government secretariat

Fire has razed a section of the Rivers State Government secretariat situated in Port Harcourt.
The Cable reports that the cause of the fire has not been ascertained.
According to the report, the fire affected the section, which houses the Rivers State Pension Board.
The development comes a few weeks after President Bola Tinubu recalled the suspended Governor of the state, Siminalayi Fubara and members of the State House of Assembly.
Recall that Tinubu had declared state of emergency in the oil rich Niger Delta state on March 18, 2025.
Details to follow…..
Trending
Our deputy travel editor was almost stranded after a nine-hour flight delay – and issues warning

After a nine-hour flight delay, the Daily Mail’s deputy travel editor has shared a major airport warning to travellers.
Hayley Minn was almost stranded in Malaga as a result – and is keen to make sure holidaymakers don’t fall into the trap themselves.
Hayley was due to take a 5pm flight EZY8072 from Malaga to Gatwick Airport on Sunday, October 5.
But when she was told her flight was delayed by nine hours – from 5pm to 2.45am – she decided to leave the airport and check in to a hotel for a few hours and then come back.
Hayley said: ‘But when I came back, my boarding pass didn’t work and security knew nothing about what I was saying, telling me my flight wasn’t leaving until 4pm later that day, and there was no one on the easyJet desk.
‘They wouldn’t let me through for almost 30 mins and I almost missed my flight. I ended up finding someone who could check and she got high security to let me through.’
Hayley’s warning is that travellers should not leave the airport in these circumstances.
Upon arriving at the airport, ‘we all went through as normal,’ Hayley said, ‘but suddenly we were told there was a problem with the plane and we needed to wait a bit longer, I’d say we were waiting for 40 minutes.’

After a nine-hour flight delay, the Daily Mail’s deputy travel editor Hayley Minn (pictured in Malaga) has shared a major airport warning to travellers

Hayley was due to take a 5pm flight EZY8072 from Malaga to Gatwick Airport on Sunday, October 5
After that, passengers on her flight were taken out of the flight corridor, and back outside the gate, and made to wait for another 20 minutes.
But then they were informed the flight was cancelled ‘because there was a technical problem with the aircraft’.
‘Loads of people immediately started rebooking onto new flights, just hoping that easyJet would give them money.
‘But I was unable to do so because the other flights were all selling out and there weren’t any with just hand luggage left – which I had. And it was so expensive and I wasn’t sure if I’d get the money back.
‘Suddenly, they told us it wasn’t actually cancelled, just delayed until 2.45am.’
Hayley said someone near to her had the idea to book into a hotel nearby.
Hayley added: ‘So I did that, found a £60 Travelodge hotel a 10-minute drive away and I left the airport, went back through passport control and to the hotel.’
She set an alarm to leave Travelodge Malaga Airport in time for her flight, and got back to the airport at 12.45am.

Hayley was almost stranded in Malaga as a result – and is keen to make sure holidaymakers don’t fall into the trap themselves
‘I left way too much time – I thought,’ Hayley said. ‘But when I went to scan my boarding pass it didn’t work – because I’d already used it.
‘There’s obviously security there, so I called them over, and luckily, I can speak a bit of Spanish.
‘They had no record of my flight being delayed – I think because we weren’t meant to leave and come back with the same boarding pass. They had no information about this, and when I showed them my flight number, they could only see a flight for 4pm.
‘So they kept telling me my flight was delayed even more – until 4pm on Monday. I started crying, as I was so stressed and tired.’
Staff told Hayley to go to the easyJet desk, and an easyJet staff member, on the 24/7 chat app, told her she needed to speak to the ground staff for help.
But no one was there at 1am.
However, she did manage to find someone in the end,
‘I went back to security and begged, “let me in, let me in, I need to get on this plane.” I was stressing so much, thinking I wasn’t even going to get on the plane at this rate.’

Hayley’s warning is that travellers should not leave the airport in these circumstances
They sent Hayley over to another staff member who called through to easyJet to check, and got confirmation the flight was leaving at 2.45am.
‘I got really high security – I think staff security – to let me in and it was fine.
‘I got through around 1.15am eventually, and I was really stressed.
‘My warning is if your flight is delayed, don’t leave the airport. Only leave the airport if it’s cancelled so the airline has to provide you with a new boarding pass if you don’t want that stress.
‘On the flip side, I didn’t get any sleep but I got a nice meal and a bed for a bit and rest, whereas a lot of people – 72 in total – didn’t take the flight in the end and got on other flights.’
She said that 130 people did get on the flight and when she got back to the gate, everyone had been sleeping across chairs, uncomfortably, in the airport, while she had been at the hotel.
In a statement to the Daily Mail, easyJet said: ‘We are sorry that flight EZY8072 from Malaga to London Gatwick on 5 October was delayed due to an aircraft technical issue.
‘We arranged for a replacement aircraft to operate the flight and provided customers with regular updates and refreshment vouchers via our flight tracker, as well as information on options to rebook to alternative flights or request a refund.
‘We are looking into the communication and support from our ground handling provider at Malaga airport, as this is not the level of service we expect for our customers, and we are sorry for any confusion this caused.’
-
Politics12 months ago
Mexico’s new president causes concern just weeks before the US elections
-
Business12 months ago
US court acquits Air Peace boss, slams Mayfield $4000 fine
-
Trending12 months ago
NYA demands release of ‘abducted’ Imo chairman, preaches good governance
-
Entertainment12 months ago
Bobrisky falls ill in police custody, rushed to hospital
-
Entertainment12 months ago
Bobrisky transferred from Immigration to FCID, spends night behind bars
-
Politics12 months ago
Russia bans imports of agro-products from Kazakhstan after refusal to join BRICS
-
Politics12 months ago
Putin invites 20 world leaders
-
Education1 year ago
GOVERNOR FUBARA APPOINTS COUNCIL MEMBERS FOR KEN SARO-WIWA POLYTECHNIC BORI