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A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes: *When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*

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A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes:

*When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*

*”Probably They Do Not Have a Good Wife/Husband or a Good Marriage”*

*As governor, I was on call 24/7 sometimes.*
*I got very angry and could take my anger on anyone.*

*So, my chief of protocol bore the brunt one day.*

*I had a reception for guests and he placed them in rooms, not the way I would have done it, but he didn’t do anything wrong.*
*He used his own judgment.*

*I would have done it the other way, but I over reacted.*
*I spoke very harsh to him.*

*While I was doing this, my wife walked in and didn’t say a word.*
*She came in, did some other things in my office and left.*

*When I got back home in the evening, I’d forgotten about it. It’s just a normal event in the day.*

*My wife went on her knees in front of me, looked straight into my eyes like a penitent sinner and said, “The way you spoke to this guy was wrong and we have to go and apologise to him.”*
*She said I had no reason to speak to anyone like that.*
*I said, “What! He did this…” and she interrupted me, “Yes, I heard everything.*

*”The way you would have done it was different, but he didn’t do a bad thing. He used his discretion.* *So, what are you going to do? You have destroyed his self esteem.* *Tomorrow, he is not going to do anything discretionally.*
*He would wait for orders and then you will get irritated at that. You have made him lose his self-confidence and that is wrong. You need to go and apologise to him. Why should you speak to someone like that?* *Because you are governor?”*

*I ignored her, stood up and went into the bedroom, still fuming. As she will always do if she wants to have her way, my wife followed me into the bedroom and went on her knees again to plead the cause of a man as if he had begged her to plead his case.*
*”You have to do it this night and not tomorrow” because I kept saying I would do it tomorrow.*
*Onarie, still on her knees and almost in tears, insisted and said, “No, tonight. That man is not going to sleep well and so you do not have the right to sleep well when he was not sleeping well.”*

*Clearly defeated, I got into the car and we drove to his house.*

*His gate man froze when he discovered I was the one. In his confusion, he did not know how to properly open the gate till Onarie told him to take two deep breaths before attempting to open the door again!*

*We were ushered into the living room by an equally confused maid who had to stumble over chairs.*

*His wife turned in.*
*They were about to go to bed.*
*She was in her night gown.*

*She saw me and was scared with the expression of, ‘Okay, you have come to fire my husband finally’.*
*The guy came downstairs, petrified as my wife and I walked into the private living room.*

*The wife wanted to get up and leave.*
*I told the guy I came to apologise for my rude and harsh behaviour towards him and I told him am sorry.*

*They all got emotional but I got relieved.*

*It was like a heavy load had been taken off me.*

*I still get upset with things going up wrong, but I don’t get to a point I feel I am too big to say sorry.*
*And am learning to treat people better.*

*You can be referred to as “Your Excellency” today, but, for the best, it will only last eight years.*
*Senator?*
*Minister?*
*It is not forever!*

*Permanent Sec? It is still not permanent and we all know it’s just a title and not a life long position.*

*Director?*
*CEO?*
*DG?*
*etc.*

*Life is a stage, a platform for services unto God.*

*So let everyone take heed. Forgive and have regard for Human beings.*

*Moral Lessons.*

*Chose a spouse that have a soft and forgiving heart not a callous one*

*Respect other people’s opinion and have a listening ear*

*Have it in your mind that tomorrow is pregnant and no one know what it will deliver*

*Respect women opinions and fine tune it if need be because they are the Architect of our home.*

*Finally never belittle anybody in life because no one knows tomorrow*

*God bless you richly. Feel free to share it if you are blessed…*

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Kwara community raises alarm over rising insecurity

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Amid growing security concerns in Ifelodun Local Government Area of Kwara State, a group of concerned residents has issued a five-point demand aimed at addressing the rising wave of insecurity in the region.

The group’s appeal includes the immediate deployment of fully armed security personnel to all identified hotspots and the establishment of a permanent joint security base within the local council.

In a statement titled “Enough is Enough,” the citizens also urged the government to provide training, equipment, and institutional support for local vigilante groups and hunters to enhance their capacity to combat crime.

Describing the security situation as increasingly worrisome, the group called on key stakeholders, including the state government, security agencies, traditional institutions, and community leaders, to take urgent and coordinated action.

Among their other demands were the convening of emergency town hall meetings involving the state governor, heads of security formations, royal fathers, and grassroots representatives to deliberate on the crisis. They also advocated for weekly security briefings from elected officials to keep residents informed of progress, or inaction, regarding security interventions.

The Chairman of Ifelodun Local Government Area, Femi Yusuf, stated that his administration had been actively working to address the situation since taking office eight months ago.

According to him, the council initiated a wide-ranging consultation with traditional rulers to identify security challenges and develop sustainable solutions. He noted that the local vigilante structure was revamped, with personnel strength increased and stipends raised by 50 percent. Members were also enrolled in the Kwara State Health Insurance Scheme to improve their welfare.

“To enhance night-time security, we instituted daily patrols from 6:00 PM to 6:00 AM across all wards,” he said.

Yusuf also revealed that, through joint operations between the vigilante group and formal security agencies, over 50 suspects had been arrested and are currently undergoing prosecution.

He added that the local administration, in partnership with the traditional council, has also launched a ward-based network of community hunters, totaling about 100 members, to boost grassroots surveillance and intelligence gathering.

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PDP ward chairman, son killed in Kwara community

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Unknown gunmen have killed the Chairman of the Peoples Democratic Party, PDP, Lade Ward One, Abdullahi Shehu Kpotun and his son in the Lile community of Patigi Local Government Area of Kwara State.

According to reports, the tragic incident occurred when the gunmen attacked their residence late at night, which led to their death.

In a statement by Abdulganiyu Abdulqadir, in Ilorin, on Wednesday, Former Senate President, Dr Abubakar Bukola Saraki, strongly condemned the brutal killing of Alhaji Abdullahi Shehu Kpotun, the PDP Lade Ward l Chairman in Kwara North and his son.

He described the attack as barbaric, painful and unacceptable.

“This is a devastating loss. I am heartbroken by the news of the gruesome killing of Alhaji Abdullahi Shehu Kpotun and his son. My thoughts and prayers are with their immediate family and the Patigi community in this difficult time,” Saraki said.

Saraki prayed for the peaceful repose of their souls and for strength and comfort for the grieving family and community.

He also called on relevant security agencies and the Kwara State Government to take urgent and proactive measures to address the growing insecurity across the state, emphasising that the protection of lives and property must be treated as a top priority.

“This rising tide of insecurity in our dear state must not be allowed to continue. Government and security agencies must act swiftly and decisively to prevent further tragedies,” he added.

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Banditry: 20 soldiers killed, many bandits neutralized in Niger attack

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A deadly attack on soldiers by suspected gunmen in Mariga local government area of Niger State and a gun duel has left 20 soldiers dead and several bandits neutralized in the area.

It was gathered the incident occurred on Tuesday in two separate communities:

It was learnt Konan Dutse Kaiyan Ghana near Bangi was invaded around 11 pm while Gulmin Boka was at 5 pm.

Sources from the area claimed that the bandits were reportedly following their usual route to carry out abductions and cattle rustling.

Confirming the attacks, the council Chairman of Mariga, Alhaji Abbas Kasuwa Garba, said the soldiers were ambushed while responding to reports of bandit movement in the area.

The chairman also confirmed that 17 bodies of soldiers were retrieved from the forest and deposited at Kontagora barracks.

Garba further stated that the vigilantes and other security operatives are still searching and trailing the criminals.

He, however, applauded the efforts of the Air Force in countering the bandits while urging residents to remain calm and report suspected movements to relevant authorities.

“The government is doing everything possible to ensure peace and stability in the area.

As of the time of filing this report, no official statement has been issued by the state government and other security agencies in the state on the development.

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