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A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes: *When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*

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A Former Governor Of Cross River State, Mr Donald Duke, Writes:

*When I See Public Office Holders Misbehaving, I Used To Have This Thought,*

*”Probably They Do Not Have a Good Wife/Husband or a Good Marriage”*

*As governor, I was on call 24/7 sometimes.*
*I got very angry and could take my anger on anyone.*

*So, my chief of protocol bore the brunt one day.*

*I had a reception for guests and he placed them in rooms, not the way I would have done it, but he didn’t do anything wrong.*
*He used his own judgment.*

*I would have done it the other way, but I over reacted.*
*I spoke very harsh to him.*

*While I was doing this, my wife walked in and didn’t say a word.*
*She came in, did some other things in my office and left.*

*When I got back home in the evening, I’d forgotten about it. It’s just a normal event in the day.*

*My wife went on her knees in front of me, looked straight into my eyes like a penitent sinner and said, “The way you spoke to this guy was wrong and we have to go and apologise to him.”*
*She said I had no reason to speak to anyone like that.*
*I said, “What! He did this…” and she interrupted me, “Yes, I heard everything.*

*”The way you would have done it was different, but he didn’t do a bad thing. He used his discretion.* *So, what are you going to do? You have destroyed his self esteem.* *Tomorrow, he is not going to do anything discretionally.*
*He would wait for orders and then you will get irritated at that. You have made him lose his self-confidence and that is wrong. You need to go and apologise to him. Why should you speak to someone like that?* *Because you are governor?”*

*I ignored her, stood up and went into the bedroom, still fuming. As she will always do if she wants to have her way, my wife followed me into the bedroom and went on her knees again to plead the cause of a man as if he had begged her to plead his case.*
*”You have to do it this night and not tomorrow” because I kept saying I would do it tomorrow.*
*Onarie, still on her knees and almost in tears, insisted and said, “No, tonight. That man is not going to sleep well and so you do not have the right to sleep well when he was not sleeping well.”*

*Clearly defeated, I got into the car and we drove to his house.*

*His gate man froze when he discovered I was the one. In his confusion, he did not know how to properly open the gate till Onarie told him to take two deep breaths before attempting to open the door again!*

*We were ushered into the living room by an equally confused maid who had to stumble over chairs.*

*His wife turned in.*
*They were about to go to bed.*
*She was in her night gown.*

*She saw me and was scared with the expression of, ‘Okay, you have come to fire my husband finally’.*
*The guy came downstairs, petrified as my wife and I walked into the private living room.*

*The wife wanted to get up and leave.*
*I told the guy I came to apologise for my rude and harsh behaviour towards him and I told him am sorry.*

*They all got emotional but I got relieved.*

*It was like a heavy load had been taken off me.*

*I still get upset with things going up wrong, but I don’t get to a point I feel I am too big to say sorry.*
*And am learning to treat people better.*

*You can be referred to as “Your Excellency” today, but, for the best, it will only last eight years.*
*Senator?*
*Minister?*
*It is not forever!*

*Permanent Sec? It is still not permanent and we all know it’s just a title and not a life long position.*

*Director?*
*CEO?*
*DG?*
*etc.*

*Life is a stage, a platform for services unto God.*

*So let everyone take heed. Forgive and have regard for Human beings.*

*Moral Lessons.*

*Chose a spouse that have a soft and forgiving heart not a callous one*

*Respect other people’s opinion and have a listening ear*

*Have it in your mind that tomorrow is pregnant and no one know what it will deliver*

*Respect women opinions and fine tune it if need be because they are the Architect of our home.*

*Finally never belittle anybody in life because no one knows tomorrow*

*God bless you richly. Feel free to share it if you are blessed…*

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Police bust syndicate behind nude photo blackmail in Lagos

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Men of the Police Special Fraud Unit (PSFU), Lagos, have apprehended three suspects who allegedly run a cyber blackmail and extortion scheme in the state.

According to the spokesperson of the unit, DSP Ovie Ewhubare, the suspects get a hold of their victims explicit photos and then threaten to release them if a ransom is not paid.

He said that the suspects, two males and a female, were apprehended after a petition was filed by a complainant who reported being repeatedly threatened by unknown individuals demanding money.

“The complainant received several phone calls in which the callers threatened to release her nude photographs to the public if she failed to pay them. Acting out of fear and emotional distress, she transferred money to the suspects.

The situation escalated when the suspects demanded an additional N10 million, prompting her to formally petition the police,” he said

The police imagemaker state dthat upon receipt of the complaint, the Commissioner of Police, PSFU, Mr Kayode Ojapinwa, ordered the immediate deployment of operatives to investigate the matter.

“The investigation led to the arrest of the three suspects. Investigations revealed that one of the suspects gained unlawful access to the complainant’s mobile device and fraudulently transferred her nude photographs to his own device. Further findings indicated that he conspired with the other suspects and other accomplices currently at large to demand and receive money from the complainant in several tranches,” he said

According to him, the suspects are currently in police custody and are expected to be arraigned before a court of competent jurisdiction.

The image maker said that investigations were ongoing to apprehend other fleeing members of the syndicate and to recover all proceeds of the alleged crime.

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Catholic Priest Collapses And D!es In Front Of Congregation While Walking To Tabernacle To Return Holy Communion

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A Catholic priest has tragically passed away after suddenly collapsing in front of the congregation during Sunday mass.

The tragic incident took place last Sunday, February 1 in Wiesmath in the district of Wiener Neustadt, Austria.

Shortly after administering Holy Communion, 59-year-old priest Raimund Beisteiner was about to return the host to the tabernacle when he “suddenly” collapsed, according to a statement from the Archdiocese of Vienna.

“Despite immediate professional assistance, he di£d in the church,” the statement said.

The mayor of Wiesmath, Erich Rasner, had also attended the Mass with many other believers and witnessed the dramatic scenes.

The shock in Wiesmath at the loss of the popular priest is great. Beisteiner had shaped the spiritual life of the parish for almost two decades and was highly regarded far beyond the community.

Rasner praised him as an “extremely conscientious, sensitive priest” and also emphasized the personal loss of a friendship that had grown over many years.

A prayer service was organized at short notice for the late priest. It was attended by numerous priests from the deanery as well as Archbishop Josef Grünwidl.

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Nollywood Actress, Angela Okorie Allegedly Re-Arrested Over Alleged Refusal To Pay Lawyer Who Secured Her Bail (Video)

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Angela Okorie, the Nigerian actress, has reportedly been re-arrested over allegations that she refused to pay the lawyer who secured her bail from Suleja Prison.

Angela was re-arrested at the Suleja prison on Tuesday, immediately she was released on bail.

This came less than an hour after actor Stanley Ontop raised the alarm over an alleged plan to re-arrest the actress after release on Tuesday.

Speaking in a video on Instagram, actress Doris Ogala who said she is already on her way to the police station, stated that the actress was re-arrested by an unnamed Senior Advocate of Nigeria, SAN, for refusing to pay the N5 million agreed fee to secure her bail.

Doris said; “You see, one thing is for someone to cut their clothes according to their size. Angela has been arrested again. As a matter of fact, I’m going to the police station now. You see, when Angela was arrested by Mercy, she called a friend of her or village person. I don’t know how they relate. To help her get a SAN.

“And the SAN charged them N5 million. I think the SAN was the one who even facilitated the bail and all that. Now when Angela knew that they have granted her bail according to the lady, Angela started saying that she didn’t ask her to get a SAN and she wasn’t going to pay the money, and meanwhile this lady has deposited.”

Recall that Angela, who was granted bail on Friday after her arrest by Mercy Johnson over alleged defamation, regained her freedom few minutes ago after perfecting her bail conditions.

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