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OSHIOMOHLE’S WIFE, LARA FORTES, BATTLING WITH DEPRESSION DUE TO MARITAL STRAIN — FAMILY FRIEND REVIEWS.

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Close family members of former Edo State Governor, Adams Oshiomhole, have disclosed that his wife, Iara Fortes, has been struggling with depression.

The cause, according to insiders, is the ex-governor’s alleged controlling and narcissistic behaviour, which has put immense strain on their marriage.

Iara Fortes, who married Oshiomhole in 2015, has maintained a low profile since their marriage, often seen only at official functions or in the background during political events. However, it now appears that behind the scenes, she has been enduring emotional turmoil.

“There is always tension between them because the man is so controlling and doesn’t give her breathing space,” revealed a family member who requested anonymity.

“It’s like she’s living in a gilded cage—beautiful on the outside, but incredibly restrictive on the inside,” she said.

The couple’s relationship, which was once the subject of public fascination, especially given the age difference and their high-profile wedding, has reportedly been deteriorating.

Insiders say that Oshiomhole’s authoritarian demeanour has been a major factor in Iara’s declining mental health.

“He has always been very demanding, not just politically but personally. He likes things to be done his way and expects everyone, including Iara, to fall in line,” a close relative of Iara shared.

“At first, she tried to keep up, but over time, it became too much. The constant pressure has taken a toll on her,” the relative lamented.

According to another source within the family, Iara’s depression has become a serious concern.

“She’s been suffering in silence for years. The public sees a smiling, supportive wife, but they have no idea what she’s going through behind closed doors. It’s heartbreaking.

“Oshiomhole is a man who believes he knows best, and he expects everyone to follow suit. This attitude extends into his marriage, where he often dismisses Iara’s feelings and concerns. He has a way of making her feel insignificant, which has deeply affected her mental health.”

The insider further explained that Iara has been reluctant to speak out about her struggles due to the stigma surrounding mental health and the fear of public backlash.

“She’s afraid that if she says anything, it will be used against her. She’s in a very vulnerable position,” she said.

Members of Iara’s family are reportedly urging Oshiomhole to reconsider his approach and seek professional help for his wife.

“We are really worried about her. She needs support, not just from professionals but also from her husband. She needs to be treated with kindness and respect, not controlled and manipulated.

“This isn’t about politics; it’s about a woman’s well-being. We hope that by bringing this to light, it will prompt him to reflect on his behaviour and make the necessary changes. Iara deserves to be happy and healthy.”

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Sir Kashim Ibrahim at His Swearing-In as Governor of Northern Nigeria

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A defining moment in the transition from colonial rule to indigenous leadership in Northern Nigeria.

The image depicts Sir Kashim Ibrahim during his swearing-in ceremony as Governor of the Northern Region of Nigeria, an event that marked a significant milestone in Nigeria’s political evolution. While the photograph is often dated to the late 1950s, historical records confirm that Sir Kashim Ibrahim assumed office in October 1960, shortly after Nigeria attained independence from British colonial rule.

Sir Kashim Ibrahim was appointed Governor of the Northern Region from 1960 to 1966, becoming the first indigenous Nigerian to hold the office. His appointment symbolised the transfer of political authority from colonial administrators to Nigerians and reflected the emerging autonomy of the regions within the newly independent federation.

Born in 1909 in Maiduguri, present-day Borno State, Kashim Ibrahim was a distinguished educator, administrator, and politician. Before entering politics, he had a notable career in education, serving as Provincial Education Officer and later as Minister of Education for the Northern Region, where he played a key role in expanding access to Western education in Northern Nigeria.

The office of Governor during this period was largely ceremonial but politically significant. It represented the Crown at the regional level while reinforcing constitutional governance under Nigeria’s federal structure. As governor, Sir Kashim Ibrahim worked closely with the Northern Region’s political leadership, particularly the government of Sir Ahmadu Bello, the Sardauna of Sokoto, who served as Premier.

His tenure coincided with a formative period in Nigeria’s post-independence history, characterised by efforts at nation-building, regional development, and managing the complexities of ethnic and political diversity. Sir Kashim Ibrahim remained in office until January 1966, when Nigeria’s First Republic was overthrown following the military coup that ended civilian governance.

Beyond politics, Sir Kashim Ibrahim is remembered for his enduring contributions to education and public service in Northern Nigeria. His legacy continues through institutions named in his honour, most notably Sir Kashim Ibrahim College of Education in Maiduguri, which stands as a testament to his lifelong commitment to learning and leadership.

The photograph remains a powerful historical record, capturing a moment when Nigeria formally embraced indigenous leadership at the highest levels of regional governance.

Sources

Falola, Toyin & Matthew Heaton. A History of Nigeria. Cambridge University Press.

Coleman, James S. Nigeria: Background to Nationalism. University of California Press.

Nigerian National Archives, Kaduna – Records of Northern Regional Government (1960–1966).

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Davido’s baby mama, Sophia Momodu, claps back at Snapchat user who accused her of flaunting a replica bag

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Sophia Momodu has responded sharply after a Snapchat user tried to drag her over an alleged replica designer bag.

The user accused Sophia of “flaunting a replica” and warned her that this is an era where fake items are easily detected, advising her to stop “setting herself up for drags.”

Sophia was clearly not having it.

In a blunt response, she fired back, telling the user to “hold your chest and say God release me from witchcraft,” adding a sarcastic “you wish?” to shut down the allegation.

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Charlie archibong akwa ibom man the deadliest Biafra war lord

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“Brigadier Archong” (also referred to as Colonel Charlie Archibong) was a prominent Biafran commander during the Nigerian Civil War (1967-1970), known for his bravery and key role in the Biafran invasion of the Midwest region.

Key Activities During the War

Midwest Invasion Commander: Colonel Archibong was the lead commander of the Biafran forces that invaded Nigeria’s Midwest region on August 9, 1967. His orders were to advance rapidly through the West and capture Dodan Barracks in Lagos within 48 hours. The advance was halted by a controversial retreat order from Brigadier Victor Banjo at Ore, which ultimately led to the failure of the offensive.

Ojukwu blamed himself for not letting achuzie or Charlie archibong lead the troops to capture Nigeria capital city Lagos after the Biafran capital city Enugu was attacked by the Nigerian, even after Charlie archibong territory fell to the Nigerian military Charlie archibong and his people mostly lead to lay a deadly ambush against the Nigerian army in Calabar and akwa ibom and pH and this action Also lead to the killing of innocent civilians by Nigeria army not only Asaba experienced massacred south south of today veteran can testify

Key Biafran Fighter: Archibong was considered one of General Odumegwu Ojukwu’s most trusted and gallant fighters. He was known by the nickname “Charlie Bazooka” and was respected for his zeal and determination.

Further Action: After the Midwest campaign, he saw more action around Ikot Ekpene.

Disappearance/Death: Archibong was reported missing after an officer-led reconnaissance operation, and his command headquarters waited in vain for his return. Sources suggest he may have been killed through internal sabotage within Biafra.

Archibong is remembered as a significant figure in the Biafran military, often appearing in historical photos alongside Ojukwu as a “war hero.

 

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