Entertainment
How Social Media Destroys Your Relationship
Social media has made it easier for people to know more about other peoples lives than ever before. Pictures of happy couples, usually tagged #couplegoals, have flooded social media blinding many young couples to the reality that people will only show what they want you to see. You only see the good times. No one shares their arguments, their bad moments or the numerous number of times they irritate each other. Couples only show the side that will bring them more likes and comments to gain social media popularity.
Social media can have a negative impact on relationships if misused. Excessive time spent, jealousy-inducing posts, privacy invasion, or online infidelity can strain trust and communication, potentially leading to relationship breakdowns.
The carefully curated images on social media can take a toll on your love life. Most times people compare their relationship to these social media relationships which look good on the outside and this has led to not only breakups but emotional abuse. You will end up putting pressure on your partner expecting them to be someone they are not, leaving you asking questions like “Why them, why not us? Why aren’t we doing this and that? Why don’t you do this like this person?”
It is important that you understand that no relationship is a bed of roses and comes with its ups and downs. Most importantly you have do what works for your relationship rather than comparing it to what you see on social media.
Here are some useful tips for you to apply in your relationship instead of comparing.
Find comfort within
Seeking validation or using others relationship to define yours is a sign that you do not have confidence in your current status. You might notice that everyone but you is getting worked up or others seem happier in their relationships than you. Don’t allow this to make you start questioning the state and progress of your relationship.
In order for you to feel more confident, fight the urge to let other couples benchmarks be a yardstick for measuring your relationship. Be happy in yours and put in efforts to make it work.
Avoid playing the blame game
Saying things like “Why aren’t we like that other couple?” or “If I was with him or her then things would be different,” only destroys the bond between you and your partner. It also breaks the trust since you blame your relationship challenges on your partner without taking responsibility.
Instead of putting the blame on your partner, focus on what you like about your connection. Remind yourselves of what made you fall in love. Go out of your way to do things for each other.
Get real with your friends
Swap relationship stories with your friends. Hearing them open up about their relationships and the struggles they face will kill any assumption you might have.
You and your friends will also be able to advise each other on how to handle the challenges you face. Sharing like this will give you a sense of relief as you realise that you are not alone. Ensure you do this with trusted friends who have your best interests at heart.
Turn jealousy into action
Your first reaction when you see those romantic getaways shared on social media might be envious however, you can turn this into positive action. Instead of letting that jealousy eat you up, organise a fun activity that you and your partner would enjoy taking part in.
Use these instances as reminders to get out and get active instead of spending countless hours online.
Take a break from social media
If you try everything else and it doesn’t work, take a break from social media for a few days or a couple of weeks. Spend this time reminding yourself of what really matters in life. Focus on being the best version of yourself and making things better in your life. And when you do go back online, unfollow anybody who doesn’t add value to your life.
Entertainment
John Cena Retires From Wrestling (Video)
John Cena’s in-ring WWE career officially ended on Saturday night at the Capital One Arena in Washington, D.C., bringing down the curtain on more than two decades at the top of professional wrestling.
The farewell headlined the final WWE Saturday Night’s Main Event of 2025 and delivered a definitive, emotional conclusion to one of the industry’s most influential careers.
Cena’s last match saw him submit to Gunther after a punishing, near 24-minute main event that blended intensity, respect and finality.
The crowd remained fully invested throughout, rallying behind Cena in the hope of a last-gasp victory that never came.
While the result shocked many in attendance, the post-match atmosphere quickly shifted to appreciation as Cena addressed the crowd, surrounded by WWE talent and staff.
Undisputed WWE Champion Cody Rhodes faced NXT Champion Oba Femi in the opening bout, but interference from Drew McIntyre led to a disqualification finish.
Despite the short runtime, Femi emerged as a clear winner in perception, making him a future main-event player.
Meanwhile, Sol Ruca delivered one of the standout performances of the night, defeating Bayley in a result that felt less like an upset and more like a statement.
Her athletic offence and confidence marked her as a rising force in the women’s division.
The final match before Cena’s farewell featured World Tag Team Champions AJ Styles and Dragon Lee against Je’Von Evans and TNA X-Division Champion Leon Slater.
Despite the difficult slot ahead of the main event, the bout delivered action and kept the crowd engaged.
Cena exits WWE having helped elevate the company to new commercial heights, while deliberately leaving the spotlight to the next wave of stars.
Entertainment
“Forget the UK, Nigeria has everything” — IJGB man gushes over Nigeria after spending 2 days for Detty December
A Nigerian man who recently returned to the country has sparked reactions online after sharing how much he’s enjoying life back home.
In a video making the rounds, the UK-based Nigerian said he arrived in Nigeria for Detty December and within just two days, he was already questioning why he hasn’t moved here.
According to him, Nigeria offers everything anyone could want — especially if you have money.
He said people greet him like a king, the lifestyle is enjoyable, and the women are beautiful.
His words:
“Nigeria has everything you need. People greet me like a king. The girls here are beautiful. If you have money here, you’re living like a king. This is where I need to be. Forget about UK.”
He went on to say that despite many Nigerians dreaming of moving abroad, his short stay made him realize that Nigeria can offer a very good life for those who can afford it.
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Entertainment
Actress Doris Ogala tries to harm herself over Pastor Chris OKAFOR
In a video circulating online a Nigerian Nollywood actress Doris Ogala has been making trends, she was recently posted by a blog where she was seen calling out Pastor Chris OKAFOR of the Mountain of Liberation and Miracle Ministry, she accused the general Oversea of so many thing’s especially luring her to leave her marriage, she also stated that ever since she had sexual intercourse with the man of God, she has been witnessing strange and diabolical events within her family which even resulted to the death of her brother.
In a recent development as at today Sunday December 14th, an actor was seen recording her in her place as the video was posted on Instagram at Amebo_lovergistblog where Doris has already wounded her self with a knife.
In the video the actor stated “who ever you’re, I just saw Doris Ogala crying 😭 on Social Media, please give me this medicine he said, give me some water, give me some water as he speaks Dazed, as he climbs down the staircase of the building he said he just have to record this, for record sake, he now insisted that please whoever you’re, you have to come to Doris aid, be he thinks Doris has cut her hand, reaching to the sitting room down stairs of the Building he saw Doris lying down on the Couch 🛋️ he quickly asked her “ Doris do you want to commit suicide or what?, Doris now asked him in a very low voice,” why are you carrying camera now?, the actor replied her telling her no that he had to get this on record for record sake please”, he don’t Doris that he cannot handle the scenario that they should go to the Hospital, Doris lying down weak touching her forehead with the Bandage rapped on her right hand, the actor told her again please just walk walk let me take you to the car, get up as Doris tried to question him on why he’s using the camera on him, as Doris stood up she said her hand is paining her as she tried to cover the wounded area with the Bandage as the bandage almost went off her hand, as both of them held each-others hands, the Actor told her to work however she could, I’m talking you to the Hospital, he said, I don’t know, I don’t know who you’re Chris, Please come and know what you’ll do about this he stated as they approached the Door outside of the House.
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Netizens have raised eyebrows as the video has generated many traffic, many saying ;


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