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Your man is your leader not just lover, mate – Kingsley Okonkwo advises women

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Relationship coach Kingsley Okonkwo has advised women to view their partners as leaders, rather than just friends or lovers.

According to him, this mindset shift can help women respect their partners more, even when they’re not perfect.

According to Okonkwo, recognising someone as a leader can change how we interact with them, and this can lead to a more positive and respectful relationship.

By seeing their partner as a leader, Okonkwo said women may be able to appreciate their partner’s different roles and qualities, and build a stronger connection.

Okonkwo said, “Ladies I want to tell you something you might not like –

Your man is not primarily your friend, lover or mate, he is first your leader.

“I told you you won’t like it…..if you don’t see him as leader you will struggle to respect him.

“If you notice you are able to treat your Boss, father or Pastor better inspite of their actions, the reason is because of where you have placed them in your heart not because they are perfect.

“It’s a small shift in mindset but it makes a big difference, once you are able to see him as leader you will unlock the friend, lover and partner in him.”

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Wole Soyinka receives the Nobel Prize in Literature from King Carl Gustaf of Sweden. The 1st African author to received such honour.

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Wole Soyinka receives the Nobel Prize in Literature from King Carl Gustaf of Sweden. The 1st African author to received such honour.

Circa: 1986

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First ADC to die protecting his boss: Loyalty truly does pay off.

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Lieutenant Akintunde Akinsehinwa, the youngest and lowest-ranking Presidential Aide-de-Camp (ADC) ever in Nigeria at just 30, showed unwavering loyalty and hard work. Starting as a staff officer under Brigadier General Murtala Muhammed, he earned trust to become ADC, even though that role usually went to higher-ranking officers proving dedication breaks barriers.

Sadly, he was the first ADC to die protecting his boss, showing loyalty’s ultimate cost.

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Muhammadu Junaidu: Scholar and Grand Vizier of the Sokoto Caliphate

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The image is a portrait of Muhammadu Junaidu, who served as the Waziri (Grand Vizier) of Sokoto and one of the most respected historians and intellectuals of Northern Nigeria.

Born in 1919 in Sokoto, Muhammadu Junaidu hailed from a distinguished scholarly family with deep roots in the Sokoto Caliphate. He was educated both in Islamic and Western traditions — an uncommon blend at the time — which shaped his lifelong mission to harmonize traditional Islamic scholarship with modern education.

Junaidu began his career in public service as a scribe and researcher in the Sokoto Native Authority before rising to become the Waziri of Sokoto, the chief adviser to the Sultan. As the Grand Vizier, he played a key role in preserving the historical and cultural legacy of the Caliphate, offering counsel on religious, educational, and administrative matters.

He was a prolific historian and author, writing extensively on the origins, governance, and spiritual leadership of the Sokoto Caliphate. His works provided valuable documentation of the Sokoto jihad, the life of Usman dan Fodio, and the socio-political evolution of Northern Nigeria.

Throughout his life, Junaidu was recognized for promoting intercultural understanding and encouraging the modernization of Islamic schools while maintaining fidelity to traditional learning. His scholarship bridged generations and continues to serve as a reference point for researchers and historians of West African Islam.

He passed away in 2017 at the age of 98, leaving behind a lasting legacy as one of the foremost custodians of Northern Nigerian history and Islamic scholarship.

Family:
Muhammadu Junaidu came from the notable Junaidu scholarly family in Sokoto. He was survived by wives, children, and grandchildren, several of whom continue his legacy in education, public service, and Islamic scholarship.

Education:
He studied at traditional Qur’anic schools in Sokoto and furthered his learning through private mentorship under Islamic scholars, later complementing this with exposure to Western-style administrative education through the Native Authority system.

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National Archives of Nigeria (Sokoto Division)

Smithsonian Institution: National Museum of African Art Collection (1955 Photograph)

Daily Trust Nigeria, “Waziri Junaidu Dies at 98” (2017)

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